Nikè Zuilhof

Holistic- and Conscious Relating Coach

Hosting Women Circles & Creative Courses

Holistic Coaching

Holistic Coaching in my practice means that I don’t solely work with your cognitive thoughts and behaviors but also with your subconscious and energetic levels. This may sounds vague (or unfamiliar) but it’s actually quite simple: you don’t feel good, happy or uncertain about certain things in your life, SOMETHING is holding you back but you’re not quite sure what it is… Besides talking about it - to gain insights and clarity - I guide you to make an energetic shift too.

We can work on:

• Recurring behavioral patterns of avoidance

• Emotional numbness

• Anger management

• Difficulty in decision making

• Choosing a life on your own terms

Conscious Relating (Couples Coaching)

Love is the most beautiful thing and sometimes the most difficult thing too; Love is daring to open up to one another. Conscious Relating is all about communication and finding empowerment in your vulnerability; to really open up to your partner for a heartfelt connection.

We start by creating awareness first; what do you send out? What do you receive? And is this actually what you mean or what actually has been said? What do we trigger in our partner, by what we say or do? Very often we listen to the other, in order to react. Instead of the willingness to really listen what the other needs or means to say.

During Conscious Relating we talk, share ànd practice to be able to lay the foundations for a good, safe and passionate relationship.

We can work on:

• Recurring fights, arguments and discussions

• Insights on- and tools for your individual attachment styles

• Deepening your emotional & physical connection

• Shaping your relationship on your own terms

I have personal and professional experience with International- & Interracial relationships

Methodology‍ ‍

My methods are a mixture of modern coaching techniques and my background as a Branding Creative. We’ll talk about your values, communication style and future vision, for yourself and your relationship(s).

• Inner Voice Dialogue: unraveling what is holding you back

• Walt Disney Method: the dreamer, the rationalist and the inner critic

• Biographical Work: what is in the past, but still needs healing

• Image Dialogue: listening and receiving on energetic levels

• Guided Visual Meditations: traveling through your subconscious

• Family Constellations and Systemic Work: a visual display of your (family) dynamics

Sessions and prices

I work in trajectories with a minimum of 4 sessions, on a weekly or bi-weekly basis. Sessions take up 1/1,5 hour for individual participants and 1,5 to 2 hours for couples. Single sessions can be purchased after your Individual Trajectory, or during the Couples Trajectory as add on’s. Sessions can be held in either Dutch or English.

Individual Trajectory €222,-*

Couples Trajectory €444,-*

A single session €65,-/€122,-*

*excl. btw


How to start?

If you are interested, please fill in my Intake Form here

After receiving this in order, I invite you to a free 15-minute online call, to get to know each other, for you to ask any questions or raise uncertainties regarding the trajectories. After that, we’ll set a date for our first session.

Other questions? Feel free to email me: nikezuilhof@gmail.com

About me

Like many of us, I wear many hats in life, and choose to work in various industries and ways, all with one common aspect: heartfelt communication and connection. I am a Branding Creative, a Certified Holistic Personal/ Systemic/ Relationship Coach ànd facilitator of Women Circles.

All my sessions offer a safe space to talk, to be heard and offer guidance towards your own inner knowledge. I am here to create a place and moment in which you’re encouraged to feel what is truly in your heart, to speak your mind and to allow yourself to enter your subconscious; to shine light on whatever is holding you back. Holding you back to connect with your partner, to pursue your desires or to truly live life on your own terms.

I’m a warm, caring and empathetic person, but not in a soft spoken way. I’m a little tough cookie, as they say. I’m a good listener and I have an analytical mind, so when I speak or ask questions, I do this quite directly; coaching you from feeling stuck, to experiencing instant relief.

Qualifications

  • 2022: Certified Relationship & Systemic Coaching - UpStarter Amsterdam

  • 2021: Certified Holistic Coach - UpStarter Amsterdam

  • 2020: Owner Creative Branding Agency

  • 2017: Bachelor of Technology, Brands and Identity, Amsterdam Fashion Institute

Hosting Women Circles & Creative Courses

Through House of Possibilities I welcome women who are ready to continue their personal development in a creative and collective manner.

The Women Circles provide a recurring time and place to reflect, share your thoughts and feelings and receive support from like minded women.

Upcoming: The Artist - a Summer Series to refuel your creativity with online and in-person gatherings, assignments, and museum visits.

More about this here